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Please note this is a visitor forum page. If this is your first visit to this site I recommend reading my Aries and Cancer compatibility article on this relationship first. If you're genuinely interested in your complex compatibility with Cancer opens up the less-emotional Aries, and Aries throws all their passion. Locked into our personal stories, we get caught in the endless loops of egoic Learn more about this full moon astrology in my podcast. . LIBRA Other people are the teachers. The ways I feel in relationship to other people.
The trick with these two is to understand their synchronicity and fine tune it like a Stradivarius violin.
Decoding Aries and Cancer friendships… Aries and Cancer have the potential to become long and lasting friends. Despite their many differences they are often able to develop a strong bond thanks to their mutual respect for each other. Cancer will be Aries go-to person for relationship advice as they recognize the crabs ability to accurately interpret the human psyche. When courting each other they will try to highlight the important aspects of their lives in the hope that the other will want to buy-in and become a part of it.
When Aries becomes thrilled to keep Cancers elderly grandmother company and Cancer becomes more outgoing and willing to live out of a suitcase — you can be pretty sure they are attracted to each other. The answer is of course — romance.
This strange personality swap only lasts for a short time however — when the novelty wears off discussions about lines in the sand and limitations must be had. But in a healthy Cancer-Aries relationship they will work to find a middle ground and balance each other out. Though, sometimes their style of negotiation and compromise may look like one step forward, two steps back — imagine 30 changes to an anniversary party in two days.
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Their friends may tear their hair out in frustration but this process does mean the two signs are in tune. Moodiness can sometimes makes an unannounced appearance and these signs are not afraid to be sullen together in public.
Just put them on the balcony to hash it out they will be fine in a while. Likewise, when Cancer gets lost in a black hole of emotion for so long that Aries feels dragged down by it — it can create real tension within the relationship. Should problems arise, some time apart might be necessary to refresh things. My problem is that he never values my feelings or its like he ignores them.
But he says "miss u" most of the times rather than he says "love u". I am not much vulnerable and sometimes he feels that he's hurt But I am the one who usually gets hurt Sometimes he calls me a friend and the other times- his lover. I really don't know what made me to fall in love with him!
Actually it was his behavior that made me to do that. He talks ALL things I mean everything on call. And finally blames me! But I have never had any sexual contacts with him. He has never asked for it too. Is he tricking me? I am feeling sick day by day and I have a feeling that I c an never get over him all my life! Does he love me or he really wants me to pay back for that 1. Its like a ship wreck if you go for him without any precautions! I am sorry for being too long.
I'm a Cancer lady and my boyfriend is an Aries man. We have been together for 5 years. The relationship is hot and steamy, yet sometimes I don't know where I stand with him. He doesn't talk much about a future with me. I feel like he loves me but I don't know how much. I am crazy in love with this man, but I wish he would give me more to go on.
I'm a Cancer gay guy and I'm living together with my Aries boyfriend for 1 year and half now. There have been moments in this relationship that weren't that easy, mainly because I was not sure that he could provide me the sense of security I needed. He was really into drugs and nightlife before we met, but since we are together he just calmed down and prefers to cuddle with me: I was once afraid he could get tired of our more "traditional" relationship, but since so many months I just got the security I needed, and he always praises me for having kept him home and healthier.
I'm extremely emotional and passionate. I've had my crisis and lost my tempers several times. He tends to listen to me during those difficult moments and hug and kiss me. My deep, sometimes pessimistic feelings don't seem to affect him, which is great. I mean, he DOES CARE, listens to and gives excellent, simple and practical advise, but he doesn't get emotionally involved, he stays there critical and analytical.
Normally he kisses and hugs me the whole day. If I don't go kiss him, he tends to come closer and says he loves me. He doesn't have "emotional" signs on his chart, it's mainly Aries, Virgo, Gemini, Aquarius I guess it's because he's had a great, supportive and loving family and a Cancerian mother: D I am a Cancer woman and have been seeing this Aries man for 4mnths now.
We instantly clicked and I think what I enjoyed most is the fact that he made me laugh. He is a party animal on the weekends but so am I, he can be a bit jealous and I think that's cute.
He talks of these long term plans and says how he wants to settle down and that he can see me in his future. I'm a bit skeptical only because I move with caution and he seems to move so fast so it's hard to believe that he really feels this way.
He has already told me that he loves me! That blew me away but I eventually exchanged the words Cancer woman and Aries man Aries too selfish and arrogant!! I am a Cancer; and I have been seeing an Aries for the past 9 mo.
We recently took things to the next level and im excited!! I have come to realize I love him!! He makes me laugh like nobody can and being with makes me soooo happy! We have had our little trip ups but we always seem to find our way back to each other. There is something about US that excites me and scares me at the same time and I love it!! He is a sweet man crazy spirit always on the go but as a Cancer I am learning to go with the groove.
I hope this last as long as possibe because I do love him I'm a Aries man and I've dated a Cancer woman on and off for the last 4 years and I've found that Cancer women would make great a great actresscause they Are very good liars and have no problem with pretending to be somebody their not, manipulation is so easy for these womenI would never date another Cancer women again, so I warn you be careful with Cancer women bEcuse they are calm liars.
I am a Cancer women 25 years of age and love my 31 year old Aries man! I was a wood worker and he is the best finisher in the bizz. D I ran and was hard to get. After 2 yearas I took a lunch brake with him at the pancake houce but I still poled my hand back when he tried to hold it then he stole a kiss in the spray booth and I pushed him back, smiled and left. The smile made him unstopabole and I finaly serenderd to him. I am a Cancer woman who is in a relationship with an Aries man.
We started out as best friends for 4 years and we did not expect to fall in love with each other. He was arrogant at most, and tends to be uninterested in my emotional dillemas which I often have as a Cancer woman.
But as soon as he realized his feelings for me, he did not stop until I felt the same.
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He did everything to make me love him more. It turned out that he can be very concerned, protective and loyal. The truth is, his nature of being independent and arrogant are swayed aside once he finds his true love. Right now, we are going strong and every day he makes me feel as if he can never live a day without me. Aries man are of leadership qualities and can run homes, but needs a very nurturing woman a characteristic of a cancer who softens his strong and stubborn side.
Im a Cancer married woman who's having an affair with a Aries married man and things are just crazy between us its like we could never get enough of each other I never cheated on my husband before but this man and I just connected the first time we met.
He always put a smile on my face and he happens to be so much of a fun person to be around. Though I know they're limits to how far we can go, im so deeply into him and he let me know every chance he gets how caught up he is with me and he cant believe he's feeling like this and he got a wife. But my point is these men are very sweet even if it's just going to be friendship in the long run. Am a Cancer woman ,and very good friends with an Aries man ,well love him to peices but am confused with him ,and its true they do play mind games with you ,you don't know if they have feelings for you so am confused with him ,One thing about Cancer woman we don't lie ,we cannot go liars.
Ive known him since imwas nine. He was my first boyfriend and nopefully he will be my last marriage. But at first it was really lovey duvy. Now its really not that way I really never know what he is feeling cuz he doeant show it and that kind of pushes me away. Aries man and Cancer woman, yikes. I married one and he was hot for about 3 seconds and then he was a waste of time. Arrogant for no reason, strange and would say one thing do another. Mostly I saw the little boy and got completely bored.
Divorced quickly as he was just confusing, he didn't know what he wanted ever, but blamed everyone else for not attending to his every whim. Just had a blind date with another Aries. He looks at me and says no connection. Ok, dude, you pursued me on a dating site and I was honest and truthful, this guy was just plain weird. He had to be 10 yrs older than his posted age of 55, and he told me I wasn't young looking for a 40 yr old.
I have never been told I look my age, and younger men are always thinking I am in their peer group by looking at me. I am living proof that Cancer and Aries are just not suited for each other. I contend that for a Cancer gal the best zodiac match is a Pisces. Aries are all hot about themselves but go to great lengths to be ugly to others.
I am a Cancer woman about to date an Aries man. We met on line and talk and text. Reading these articles causes confusion, the scale goes from love to hate.
It's a good thing I know better to get my own experience vs looking at others. I may get hurt or I may get my happy smile but as olf folks say I am a Cancer woman who fell madly in love with an Aries man. We spent 1 year just talking, learning each other and what each other wanted from the relationship. We began the next phase of our life and believe me Amazingly beautiful, fullfilling and deeply satisfying. I had found my soul mate for life and he had found his.
Yes, my Aries man said that to me! We began to make our plans for the future, but of course, life got in the way.
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Without all the ugly details, I began to see a completely other side of this wonderful, beautiful, very intelligent man. Once I started seeing this other side of him, my insecurities then surfaced only to cause more harsh, cold, very hurtful words and actions. We discussed our problems, you know, the ones he had with ME.
He literally threw me out of his house and cut off all communication to him. This all done within an hour. Sparing more details, I was left completely devastated and hurt to the point of total agony. I did not want to see another day. I had spent 7 years of my life investing my heart, soul and existence into our relationship with a man I didn't really know after all.
I have spent another 2 years going back and forth with him trying to figure out "what he wants" in life. Enduring countless rages on certain days and other days, very happy conversations and occasional lunches. IMO, it is much better to have never loved, than to have loved and lost in such a bitter, ugly, devastating way.
The bottom line I have found with my experience with my Aries man is: No, he never cheated on me, but his mind sure did On his good days, we had the best time! We laughed and laughed and enjoyed each other's company.
On his bad days which were steadily increasinghis moodiness and aloftness, and negativism that he would direct at me, would just crush me.
If you are a Cancer woman and are attracted to an Aries man We had a wonderful, beautiful, very loving relationship until I made a mistake. I had an opinion of my own. The wrath that followed just about put me in my grave. I have retreated to my shell, where I will remain for quite some time and may never come back out completely. I have been with an Aries man for 2 yrs now. I can act like a total fool around him. Rather than judging me, he joins in. I am about to date one I guess I will go with the "guess my sign" mood, ha, ha, ha!
Yes, I will tell you how my date went I need him, a man with leadership quality to bring me out of my shell and he needs me, a very nurturing woman who softens his strong and stubborn side.
I am a Cancer woman dating a Aries manhe is all a woman could want gentlekind yes a bit controlling however most Cancer woman can handle that since we are strong and a bit over bearing at times. We dated 10 years. Then split for a very long time, now we seem to have matured and have much more in common.
Sex is still WOW!!!! I will never leave my Aries again this time I am here to stay. One suggestion if he wants to leadlet him with a gentle push in the direction you need him to go lol if it is his idea he will be much more willing if You get my drift In the mid 's I had a one night stand with an Aries man before I left for overseas and when I came home I hooked up with an Aries man and we were married after 20 months of being romantically involved. I have known my husband years prior and we have been together as husband and wife for over 11 years.
I just got out of relation with Aries cause he tld me if I aint answer the phone that he was going hurt me really bad he said that he was going to come to my house and hurt me I am a Cancer woman. I've read the articles and some say it can't work and others say it's possible.
I have been very close friends with my Aries man for the last 5 years. What I found that works is to play to the role of princess. Let him be your knight in shining armour. He loves to protect you, just give him the chance! I guess it also helps if your man is into video games and the two of you can be nerds about it for hours, but the point remains the same. Be his princess and he'll be your prince.
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I was attracted to his Aries mans dark mysterious side. I never got closure or anything. Cancer woman met Aires man who she had dated briefly 30 years earlier.